Approaching a cute stranger has always been difficult and especially in India, where small talk or any kind of talk between the two sexes is either prohibited or frowned upon. Visiting a bar, going for a picnic in a garden or drinking a coffee in a cafe are all nice ways to meet strangers in Hollywood and Bollywood movies but in real life, societal compulsions and constraints make the youth turn to dating apps and that is where they feel they can be themselves without being judged or elbowed. Moreover, dating apps offer the option to display more than your face and physique. While using these apps, you can give people a glimpse into what you like, dislike, what your hobbies and passions are and probably what your personality is like- things which would elude a person in love at first sight.
Since dating app profiles go beyond just looks, it is essential that they have substance to them. Describing what kind of a person you are not just with pictures but also with your bio, by talking about your interests, etc. can give other users a more dynamic impression of you than the one based on just your appearance.
According to a survey conducted by QuackQuack, India’s leading dating app, users responded to questions on what makes for a perfect dating profile for them when they are liking and crushing on the app.
What are the elements of a good bio for you
Most of the people in the age group of 18-30, 72% agree that an eye-catching bio is short, concise, and to the point. ‘’Bios are supposed to be funny and attractive, not long and boring like autobiographies’’, said one of the QuackQuack users. With a short span of attention, the youth does not look forward to reading long paragraphs about one person when they could just simply skip their profile. For people above 30, 56% of the users prefer reading about the career, life achievements and goals of their matches as opposed to 44% of them who prefer quirky bios.
Men, 45% of them, agree that shorter the bio, the better in contrast to 64% of women who instead like longer bios. People from tier 2 cities like reading longer bios with more details to them and elements that demarcate them from the rest of the users whereas people from metros choose short and funny descriptions instead.
What would you like to see in their pictures
When the question of pictures uploaded on dating apps was brought up, 67% of 18-30 year olds said that pictures should be a reflection of what a person does on a regular basis and how they are in real life. To put it simply, pictures of hanging out with friends, pictures of engaging in your favourite activities and sports and pictures that give a sneak peek into who you are. For 87% of men, full length body pictures of users without their entourage was a priority while 59% of women showed preference for pictures with pets. 40% of tier 2 city folks showed no aversion to the use of filters in the pictures uploaded by other users whereas 62% of metropolitan folks did.
Talking about the survey, Ravi Mittal, CEO of QuackQuack said, ‘’Today, dating apps are the first choice of any person who wishes to make friends or look for a partner and it is imperative that the profile of users seems striking and attractive.’’
What makes their profile unique for you
52% of people in the age group of 18-30 concur that honesty is what makes a person’s profile unique and stand out from the rest. A bio that is written by a person himself is likely to get more likes than the one filled with cliches. Moreover, copied or similar bios are a huge no for the majority of young QuackQuack users. As for men, no mention of past relationships is what ticks all the right boxes for them. 59% of men agree that they wouldn’t like a profile that talks about their ex(es). For women, humbleness was a key factor. A Mr. I, Me, Myself who is all about himself would have his profile skipped by 66% of women. For people in metro cities, good grammar was something that made a profile unique for 74% of them in contrast to 42% of people in tier 2 cities.